ACCEPT YOURSELF FOR WHO YOU ARE

You are beautiful just the way you are,

You don't need to be a superstar.

Don't think you need to be someone else,

Because you brighten up this world by just being yourself.

                                                                                    BY NELL

It's important to be happy, your smile tells everything about you. It's all about you, true to be yourself. You can be fat, rachitic, ugly, black, thin, or dwarf.

Every time we feel bad when we are in front of a crowd because of our looks isn't it! 

Sometimes you look at the mirror and cry out aloud that why are you horrible or terrible, isn't it true? You feel tragic and pity for you! Right.

But think again, Are you really that ugly? Why you always look at people who you think are better than you? Why do you want to be like a celebrity?

Do you know, there are many people around you,  who really wish to be  like you. Some are blind, some are deaf, some are lame, and etc They are wishing if they could be like you. Ask them!

We all have a complaint about our body, we want to be perfect and gorgeous, right! But trust me, we are already best and excellent. Just feel yourself and accept the way you are.

On my birthday of 2020, I've realized one thing " yes I'm perfect in my own way"

The very morning on my birthday, I had a petty argument with my family and friends. Everyone was busy with their  own  work so I decided not to disturb them. Then i just decided that I'm going to sai mandir alone! I dressed up in front of my mirror with teary eyes, I was staring at myself and wishing if I could be perfect, handsome, tall, and thin. Then sooner I went to the sai temple, I worshipped there, Then suddenly a small girl with a scar on her face ask me for a penny. I said let's go to the shop and choose whatever you want to eat. She smiled and selected the chocolate, chips, and ice cream. I was getting late so I paid the bill and at last, when I was about to say goodbye to her, she whispers "aye bhaiya ap bhut sundar ho, kash mai bhi apki tarah hoti", I smiled at her and tell her she is lovely as she is.

After this incident, I started questioning myself, asking that why she wants to be like me? And realized I'm perfectly fine, I just have  to love and appreciate myself a bit more.

If you want to be happy just accept the way you are. You may be fat, ugly, rachitic, gay, or transgender. And it's ok! You don't need to prove anything to temporary mobs. 

Just always be confident because no one can love you if you don't love yourself.

Secondly, if your people really love you they will accept the way you are. You don't need to pretend in front of them.

By the way, after that incident, I felt really lucky that I've everything, I am fine even I'm bulky, dwarf, or rachitic but I'm beautiful inside and out.

I think we all are perfect in our own ways. Be happy if someone is judging you, just remember you are important to them that's why they can't ignore you. Moreover it's the flaws in us that gives us the uniqueness we possess.

After this blog, just look yourself on your mirror and smile, you will definitely see new YOU, whom you have lost while comparing yourself to others.

so just accept yourself the way you are. And one more thing -  if you are true to  yourself then you'll become more confident and beautiful. So, smile more and lit the world because you are an amazing creation of God.

And Trishala thanks for always  help me out and for motivating me!